In order to keep yourself safe, always trust your instincts. If it doesn’t feel safe, it probably isn’t.
You have a right to be treated with respect and dignity. If you are sex working, here are a few tips to help you to keep safe:
- Sign up to National Ugly Mugs (NUM) to receive warnings about potentially dangerous individuals and situations.
- Use a number or email checker to screen customers before agreeing to see them – NUM have these.
- Note the client’s mobile phone number in case you need to report a crime; don’t take bookings from withheld numbers.
- Be clear about the services that you are willing to provide and the cost from the beginning.
- Use your online profile as a place to be clear about these and always speak to the client yourself.
- Network with other sex workers through online forums for sex workers where warnings about individuals targeting sex workers are shared.
- Always agree business and take money first.
- Have a plan ready in case something goes wrong.
- Know the escape routes to a safe place within the building.
- Always carry a personal safety alarm.
- Never leave a key in the lock, as you could be locked in.
- If you can, let someone know where you are going and when you intend to be back.
- Try to avoid using drugs or alcohol when working. If you do, then try to use an amount that keeps you aware and stable.
- If you are offered refreshments by a client, only accept unopened drinks.
- Carry a fully charged phone with emergency numbers on speed dial.
- Always trust your instincts and be willing to say no.
- Always try to take in as much information about a client as possible.
- Don’t carry a weapon as this can be used against you.
